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作者Mr. David  (英国外教 / 湖南澧县职业技术学校 / 来源:湖南省外国专家局网站

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It is true to  my  opinion  that    teaching    young adults  aged between 14-18   years   of   age,    is delightful. My experience  at LiXian Vocational  and Technical   Institute  was and still is  a memorable one.  In  the  beginning  I  was worried,  especially my first day. I was confronted in  the morning by my first class of over  fifty  students’ faces quietly  watching my  every  move.  What they may have understood   was   near  to nothing,  I realised that  very quickly, but they were well behaved  and that made me  confident  to approach  my  teaching  with enthusiasm. My second experience in the  afternoon  was  very  different;  a  class  of  very  naughty  younger students  who were  badly   behaved  and  who  were  to  become  my  main class, and a class of students I was to grow to love deeply.

I  remember  the  fear  that  I felt during the  afternoon  in  class 371,  so  strong  was  it that I  considered  walking  out  almost  running,  from where I  stood  at  the front of the class  I was near to the door and all  I had to do was move toward it  and out and leave the terror  behind.

Very few students  in  the class seemed  to  even notice  I  was there, other then for curiosity they didn’t seem to care.  I think for them,  I  was a novelty and a  reason  to misbehave. I can’t remember all  of  the details except I felt very uncomfortable and felt I had lost control ,  it had been so  easy in  the  morning a  class of  older students 343  second  graders who clearly had  respect ,  but this class 371 did not.

I was faced with many difficulties; for instance,  how do  I get to know fifty students names  and  personalities  and how can I  get  them  to hear me  understand  me and  to respect me? And what support did I  have to  accomplish this  impossible task?

As the first foreign teacher  to  teach  at  this school from England,  how could I teach these students the language  of English?   Many questions and  no  answers make  for  much worry and work.

My  first  instinct  was  to  find  out  what  support  I  had by reporting  my  difficulties  to  my foreign affairs officer Cindy. She  quickly  acted and spoke  to the class about  their  behaviour  and  day  two they  were better  behaved, which gave me time  to  find  solutions for  the  problems.  I  began  by eliciting  rules  of  the  school  and  in  the  second lesson introducing  question form  words  to see  if  they could construct a simple sentence. It was ok, but I needed to get to know them and to have them trust me.

It is  strange  to  think  that  students  who  have studied English for about six years could not speak the language, but that is indeed  the position  of  the  average  Chinese student at  this school, students who had failed  to get a  place  in  middle school 1 because perhaps their parents could not  afford to pay the fees, students who through no fault of their own had been unfortunate.  As  I  was  to find out later  many had come from  broken  homes  (divorced parents) and others had been treated unfairly by a system that doesn’t  recognise individuality and the possibility  of  other  teaching  methods from the traditional.

The  traditional method of  teaching in  a Chinese school  is  one  of  fear  and  discipline a  method much used  in   western   countries   like   England   up   unto the 1970s. Methods began to change when  I was  at  school during  this  era  to  a  much friendlier and humanistic approach,  but  it  had and still has some way to go to become truly humanistic,   which  in  turn helps children  to  want and enjoy learning in  the majority  of cases. And it is without doubt the majority that as teachers we want to influence.  It is also through  this  experience  of  teaching at Lixian Vocational that I was to become aware of how to change some of  the minority  to  become  good  and  interested students too.

One of  the most difficult tasks as a  foreign teacher is to get  attention  from  the  students  and  for  the  reasons pointed  out  earlier  it  is  an  awesome task.   First the students need to be able to respect the  foreign  teacher and to achieve this, the teacher  needs  to get  the  trust of  the students.  This was done at  Lixian by  getting  to  know   students  on  a  personal level,  by  first  knowing  them  intimately  by  name.   Each  student  needs to be an individual and  to  trust the  teacher and  not  fear  the teacher.  In  many  cases students whom  I  go to  know  very  well,   became good students enjoying  their lessons and  constantly  telling  me  that  they  loved  me,  this  I shrugged off as a fond liking, but as for love I  considered that is  a  thing  that  only  family  can  do,   I was wrong and the students were right  a  teacher  can  and  should  love   the students with the love comes caring and that is good for both student and the teacher,  for  it encourages trust  and  respect and  that  is what is  needed  for  both  parties  to  learn  about each other  and  the subject. It is called  the  humanistic  approach because  it  takes  into  consideration that the students and teacher are individuals and people rather then a cold distant oppressive method of old.

One of the mistakes I made before I learned otherwise, in the early period of teaching at  the school was to become  angry  at  the  student  who  misbehaved  by  not  paying  attention  or  talking to other students in class and  other bad  behaviours,  I soon  learned  that  students  do  not respond  well  to  anger, they  just get  frightened and this represses them.  A  better method I found was to threaten them with a much more loving thing … loving itself. Many, if  not  all  students and especially Chinese students are terrified of closeness from an elder, so I soon discovered that   a   threat   of   a   hug   made   them  behave for  it embarrassed them to their peers.  Within  a  term  I  had control of almost all students  in  this  once  mischievous class and I had fallen in love with them all and them with me.

It matters of course on the support system that a school offers and  I was lucky to have  a   great team helping me through almost all the time from the Master of the class to the Principal headmaster of the school and I would like to extend my thanks to all  the  teachers whom  were all so helpful to me and listened to my suggestions and applied them when they could.   One  suggestion  that  was  very helpful  to  me  as  a  foreign  teacher  was  that Chinese English teachers use as much English as possible in their lessons  and  less  Chinese  and  force students to  listen more to English, this made a huge difference to the speed and   usage   that   eventually  the  students were able to improve and helped the teachers to I don’t doubt.

Kind thanks to Cindy my FAO and to Vice-Principal’s Mr.Wu, Mr.Peng, Mr.Zhu, Mr.Zhang and Mr.Ren and especially to the Headmaster Mr. Lu (Louis)

Mr David Schendel , Diploma TEFL/ TESOL
schendel.co.uk/dave


 

给那些在14-18岁年龄段的青少年教学是一件充满欢乐的事情, 这是我真实的看法。我在澧县职业中专学校的经历不仅是我过去最难忘的记忆之一,现在也仍然是的。一开始我很担心很忧虑,尤其是我要去上课的第一天,在早上,我初次面对一个班级,一个有着50多个学生密切注意着我的一举一动的班级。尽管他们所懂得的接近于零,并且我也知道讲得很快,但是他们都表现得很好,这使我很有自信心去热衷于教学,然而我在下午的第二次经历却是截然不同,那个班级有着非常调皮的学生,刚开始,他们的表现非常不如人意,后来他们却成为了我最重视的班级,最后我深深地爱上了他们。

我还记得那个下午我在371班所感受到的害怕,它是如此的强烈,以至于我很想从所站之地——教室的前部走开,严重点说是跑开,其实前门近在咫尺,我可以做的所有事就是慢慢地朝它移动,然后走出去,离开这个令人不安的地方。但似乎没有几个学生注意到我就站在那儿,而且即使有令人好奇之事,他们也漠不关心。我因为他们而陷入深思,我是一个外国人,我认为有理由我的举止出人意料。我没能记住所有细节,只是感觉特别不舒服,感觉已经失去了控制。而早上在高二343班——那群年长点的孩子班上上课却是如此的简单,他们都非常尊敬我,但是在371班却是与之如此截然不同。

我曾面对过许多困难,例如,我该怎样知道这五十多个学生的名字和性格呢?我该如何让他们听我的话,理解我并且尊重我呢?而且我究竟拥有什么东西来支持我自己去完成这项不可能办到的任务呢?因为我是第一个给这所学校上课的英格兰外籍教师,我该怎样教这些学生学习呢?许多像这样没有答案的问题导致我在工作上的许多担忧。

我的第一反应是通过把困难报告给我的外事办主任辛迪,来找出我究竟有什么来支持我自己。她迅速采取行动并对那个班级说了他们的行为举止。两天后,他们班级便好多了,这给了我时间来寻找解决问题的方法。在第二节课,我通过引出学校规章制度初次以提出问题的方式来看他们是否能造简单句。当然,他们可以,但是我需要慢慢了解他们,并让他们信任我。

那真的很奇怪,我不相信一个已经学习英语将近六年的学生却不能说这门语言。这不应该是这所学校学生所应有的水平。这些没能进入县第一中学的学生可能是因为父母负担不起学费,因此在我看来这些没有过错的学生是不幸的。我后来开始找那些父母离异了的学生和其它被现存教学法——没有认识到因材施教和采取其它传统的教学方法的可能性,不公平对待的学生。

在我看来,中国学校的传统教学方法是让学生惧怕,惩罚是教育学生的手段之一。这些方法大部分都曾被应用于西方国家(像20世纪70年代的英国),但这些做法在我还呆在学校的时期就发生了趋于和谐化和人道化方向的重大改变。

但是这次改变直到现在还是有需要改进的地方以趋于真正的人道化,这样才会增加孩子们学习兴趣,毫无疑问,作为老师,我们都要对孩子起一定影响,通过我在澧县职业中专的经历,我知道了该如何使那些少数不听话的学生脱胎换骨,变得既懂事又对我的课堂充满兴趣。

作为一名外籍教师,最大的难度要去引起学生的注意。第一点,学生应该要尊重外籍教师。老师需要得到学生的信任,在澧县职业中专,我做到这一点。每个学生都需要一点个人空间来信任老师并且不怕老师,通过许多实例,那些我很了解的学生总是课堂活跃份子, 他们会喜欢我的课程,并且他们会忠实地告诉你,他们有的爱你,刚开始我并不是很在意这种深情的喜欢。但是至于爱,我认为那是家人才拥有的东西。我错了,并且那些可爱的学生才是对的,一个老师可以并且应该去关爱他们的学生,在师生情谊产生之时,那对学生和老师都很好, 因为它能鼓励信任与尊重,并且那也是双方了解对方所需要的东西—— 爱, 爱叫做人性化的接近。因为它深刻诠释了一个道理,学生与老师都是非常重要的,而不像以前,他们现在每个人都扮演着一个重要的角色。

另外,在我理解这些之前,我所犯的错误之一是, 刚刚在这所学校时,我会对那些上课不认真听讲或讲小话的学生生气。很快我意识到学生对于生气不会有好的回应,他们只会感到害怕并且这样会抑制他们的情绪, 后来,我发现了一个更好的方法,用心交流去感染他们。有很多这样的情况发生,并不是所有的学生尤其是中国学生会害怕与年长的人太亲近,因此,我很快发现一个紧紧的拥抱会拉近彼此的距离。在一个学期内,我便能让这个淘气的班级的大多数学生非常听我的话了,并且深深地爱上了他们,他们也爱上了我。

当然,学校所提供的支持也是非常重要的,我很幸运身后有一个强大的队伍一直都在帮助我,从班主任到学校副校长都是如此。 我很想要向所有的老师表达我的谢意,老师都乐于帮助我,都乐于倾听我的建议,只要他们能够做到,他们会应用到实际中去。作为一个外国人,我特别想提一个建议的是中国英语老师应尽可能多的在他们课堂上使用英语,少用汉语,使学生听英语,这样会在英语的语速上和应用上有巨大的影响,学生最终能够有所提高,并且毫无疑问对老师有所帮助。

最后,将我最真挚的谢意给我最近的辛迪和学校各位领导。

  

 作者姓名(中英文):大卫 Davia

 国 藉:英国

 聘请单位:湖南澧县职业中专
 

 

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